How close are you with this friend? If your friend is, as your gut feeling tells you, in need of resolving the issue at hand immediately, then do something about it.

Most of the time, your friend might show on the outside, that everything is okay and might not want anyone to interfere. But deep down inside, she is crying out for help, for a caring person who is sincere enough to listen.

Just go with your gut feelings, Lila? :)

At least you've said your piece.

Good luck :)

hi mich,

thanks for your kind words. called the guy up last wkend. he sounded ok.. so i'll just let him be lah. if he needs anything, he'll know where to look :)